A Long To-Experience list, just one life!

Perhaps there isn’t any answer to it, why if something ends it doesn’t feel good.
Is it because eventually it gives you a reason to stay attached with, and occupied?
Leaving out a lot incomplete gives you pretty enough time to avoid boredom from doing nothing. Indulging yourself in too much stuff possibly gives you wicked headaches, but surely soothes some bad sections of life.

There is a bunch of people in your life that actually serves the noun 'perfectionist’ to you...
People who want everything happen to be the best in life and to reach there, assay back and forth to improvise. Getting things done, balancing life & relationships. Every second you find them doing so well and then you wonder, why such things never happen in your life. (It is more like believing that 'good' things only happen to other people.)
When we look at what's happening in others' worlds, we fool ourselves by believing that their lives are straight or less stressful. We have no idea what is actually going on in someone's world.

Indeed they are perfectionist, the ones who stand best+among+all.  Quite amusing to give a thought to whether is it really true from their perspective.
Other might look upon them as admirable personalities but it is not what they consider themselves. Perhaps they might also intercept some things (willingly) and think, "stop looking at us as role models, we aint that perfect and nobody can ever be. Get a life! We also grew up in leaving things incomplete, unfinished and left out at sudden point. Semi-colored paintings, incomplete sketches, half choreographed songs and yes half read novels."

And if you understand this, the list can be surely continued.....a well initiated novel with a lost thought, said to be broken relationships (which are left or quit by one or all and not by "the destiny" by the way. What an irony :D). It doesn’t make sense to be a perfectionist instead its always good to move on the road towards improvisation.

Improvisation is better than being perfect or to be called a perfectionist. Ever seen a Zen circle? It is an unfinished circle, imperfect still an ideal form of drawing.. What is unfinished is actually constant and this is how it should be.

Hence we all are perfect in our imperfections. So, seems perfect? ;)
(image credit: Google.com | quote: self))

A friend asked me to name one of my passion and hobbies. For a moment I was clueless.
I never thought that way to categorize my liking and subconsciously I thought why haven’t I, still?

Like always I questioned him back to state the difference between a passion and a hobby. He simply answered that perhaps eating is your habit but cooking could be your passion. I was like "What!" but confused him instead. Then we started arguing [admit that we actually love to argue at some point with our close buddy(ies)] and eventually somebody let someone win :p

Afterwards I asked many minds and brains to differentiate the terms and incurred few replies. I came out to this.

Passion is something you are crazy about, a rage that totally freaks you, and makes you suffocate if you think of quitting. An extreme case where you have all the ways and lanes to conform.

You can write on something? Might be your hobby; you can write on almost anything? Indeed writing is your passion. Hobby reflects you but a passion reflexes you.

Hobby grows, it increases but passion is a born attitude towards something. A hobby is not difficult to pursue if you get enough time for it. More over to an extent if you willingly take out some time to practice and improvise, it may become your passion. Sometimes, it takes a lot of time to recognize your passion irrespective of you being naturally attracted towards it.

I am ending up concluding that I do not have a passion, though having a few hobbies to pursue forever but not a single one that I feel crazy about. Perhaps a little maniac over dance and painting, still passion? Indeed it is yet to recognize ;)
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Ohh Yes, Readers! your interpretations are invited.
(photo caption: self quoted)
 

It's been quite long since I penned down my wandering thoughts. Not that I didn't have anything on my mind or seeking any topic I can write upon. Actually the issue was (and is always) that I had been rambling into many thoughts.

Best part I tell you, thoughts come into your mind only the time when you are not carrying a pen and a piece of paper. You promise yourself that the moment you sit down, you'd write whatever comes to your mind. You trying doing that and  Bam! you're rather a better thinker than a writer, aren't you? You just run out of right words and start to feel that your thoughts aren't even worth writing down:p

Last evening, while wandering back home and thinking what could spark me to write something,this vary topic dawned upon me! Why don’t I try writing the psychology of a writer? Let’s peep in to their mind ;) so comes this blogpost with thoughts that ran into my mind.

Sure, we all find ourselves caught in situations where at some point or the other we scribble something, we crush the paper, throw it in a dustbin (Or recycle bin), force our self to think more, take references, and in the end write it any way to finally get the task done. (Be it holiday homework or love notes, believe me I have seen many such people who always seek their beloved writer friends for love notes*.)

But when it comes to writers, it's little different. You aren't like everyone else. Initially, it's all the same. You write something you like, you re-read it; you feel how disgusting it has turned out, then comes the difference! You keep it safe somewhere and just couldn't throw it away. Because, you're a writer. You just don’t tear it off or press Ctrl+Shift+Delete.
Reason is pretty literal :p Every piece that you write is like a fruit of your labor, besides it’s a tested fact that more you write, more it gets better. You won't get tired of writing anything (after all what's more sensible then talking ;)

Another difference! Ask somebody to write on a given topic. Max they would do is to end up writing nothing at all. Now talk about the writers, give them any topic, they’d take some time to think and sip in their coffee, to trip over their own feet and slams in to a wall, or to stay alone for penning down.They would loose the track, but eventually come back to the topic. No matter what, they would surely finish the writing.

*Ask a writer to compose the best love-notes with their poetic thoughts and thoughtful poetry. Need I say more?

Have fun, keep reading and try writing! ;)

Barbeque nation in a single sentence would be an excellent food joint to enjoy the live barbeque cuisines coming across the Mediterranean, oriental and Asian dainties.

Ratings
Food	5
Interior and Decor	4
Hospitality and service	4.5
Money matter	4.5, Families: B, B+ and above / Youth
Preference and recommendations	5, Families, friends specially the youth.