That Comforting Silence. Sometimes it's really good!

12:31 PM



Sometimes staying mute is better than being just a flute. Sometimes people need a listening heart than a judgemental brain.

More often we lose something or someone in the path of life and interestingly, we know the reasons behind.


We stumble, wander, break down and we know why.
A few vague decisions taken entirely on our own may not be fruitful and disappoint us and we know that too.

People keep on telling us that it's all our fault, it's us who put everything on stake and that we could have tried different means. It's not that they are wrong, but their ignorance that whatever #$^%!~ they are trying to console us with is something we already know. I guess there is no end to their preaching and our own teachings to us.


Nothing happens without our consent either consciously or subconsciously and we know it. When people go through a situation (anything I mean) it is necessary for them to get a little breathing space of their own. All they need is just a little bit of lone time to come out of it. Too much interaction can lead one to either be repulsive or a silent storm that would explode if pushed any further.

The gist is, if we understand anything or everything, it is advisable to understand the fact too, that in most of the cases a person doesn't need constant preaching and "talks" but a comforting silence of one's presence in his life. Ends here!

P.S. You know why Time is said to be the best healer, why a person who is depressed find solace in isolation. The answer is right up there.
Finally ends here. ;)
(Photo credits: a page from my diary with a preserved gifted flower and some scribbling.)

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5 comments

  1. As normal people, I wouldn't think that we have control over everything. There are some situations when we find ourselves way over our head. It helps to have a friend, a confident with whom you can share at such times.

    Doesn't mean to say, one shouldn't be independent in making their decisions. I, for one, have always taken my decisions. Some have been good, some not so. It's either been a great experience or a learning experience. No scapegoats to blame :)

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    1. So true. It is always better to blame yourself for your own decision instead of blaming others for the advise they give which didn't work out for you.

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    2. I don't blame myself for the decisions that don't turn out too well, I just take the responsibility for them :P

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  2. Very well written, your blog connects. I can feel that you have written with a very calm mind! #Salute :)

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    1. Thanks Sumit, if reader finds it connecting, I guess one objective of blogging is well-met.
      And yes thanks for the salute.(tongue in cheek).

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